Do you ever wish that your partner would “take more time” in bed?
Do you long for slow, delicious sex?
Do you wish the “main event” were less of a “wham-bam-thank you mam” and more of a sensuous journey of exploration and anticipation while you floated on waves of oceanic bliss?
I have another question for you.
What are your self pleasure practices like? That’s right. Do you practice self pleasure foreplay for yourself? Or do you go for gold with the first stroke? Do you self pleasure the same way every single time?
Hmmm.... yeah, me too.
Until the other day. I took my time. Self pleasure foreplay. And it was SO GOOD!!
The thing about foreplay (and all sexual pleasure, really) is that if you don’t take the time to treat yourself, how can you expect someone else to do the same? How can you ask for what you enjoy, for what really gets your kitty purring if you don’t check it out for yourself first?
This type of exploration is SO IMPORTANT! Curious, mindful, pleasurable exploration of your own body has the power to rewire your relationship with touch and can help you learn so much about your body. This is the 2nd Element of The Yoga of Desire - which is “Feeling || The Water Element”. Touch, sensation, and awareness of how that impacts the way you feel is crucial to having an authentic expression of sexiness in the bedroom.
Watch my latest youtube video (and while you are at it, subscribe to my channel and click like on the video if you agree that self pleasure foreplay is HOT!) and after you are done,, take a moment to download the self pleasure foreplay practice to follow along to next time you make a date with yourself!